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Are Wedding Favours Dead? What Couples Are Doing Instead In 2026

For years, wedding favours were almost non-negotiable. Tiny boxes of chocolates, personalised candles, jars of honey, magnets, shot glasses… if guests sat down at a table, there was usually a little gift waiting for them.

But lately? Couples are quietly asking the same question:

Do people actually take wedding favours anymore?

Because if we’re being honest, we’ve all seen it happen. At the end of the night there are still twenty personalised koozies sitting on tables, half the chocolates untouched, and someone loading leftover favours back into the car.

It’s not that guests don’t appreciate the thought. Couples are just becoming more intentional with their spending and asking:

“Will guests actually use this?”

And in 2026, we’re seeing many couples put that budget somewhere else.

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Photo By: Alexandra Kate Creative

Why couples are moving away from traditional favours

Experiences over ‘stuff ‘

Couples are prioritising memorable moments over gifts guests may leave behind. Think late-night pizza drops, espresso martini carts, photo booths, lawn games, live music and interactive food stations. Guests may forget the candle, but they’ll remember dancing with fries at 10.30pm.

Wedding budgets are tighter

With wedding costs rising, couples are becoming more intentional about where money goes. Instead of spending $800–$1500 on favours, many are putting that budget towards things that create a bigger impact like florals, photography, entertainment, better food and drinks, or even the honeymoon.

Practical sustainability

Couples are becoming more conscious about waste and asking simple questions: Will guests use this? Will they keep it? Is it worth it? Disposable novelty items are becoming less popular, while meaningful and practical choices are taking their place.

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Image By: The Photo Booth

So what are couples doing instead?

Edible favours

These are still winning.

Ideas:

  • Place-card cookies
  • Local chocolates
  • Macarons
  • Mini bottles of olive oil
  • Honey
  • Liquor and a recipe
  • Donuts
  • Hot sauce
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Late-night snacks instead of table favours

This trend is everywhere.

Swap: Individual favours

For: A surprise food moment

Ideas:

  • Mini burgers
  • Pizza
  • Fries
  • Ice cream carts
  • Toasties

Guests genuinely love it.

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Image By: Daisy Days

Photo booths become the favour

Guests leave with something they actually keep.

Printed photo strips and digital galleries have quietly become the new wedding favour because they’re personal and tied to a memory from the night.

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Personal notes

Some couples are choosing quality over quantity.

Rather than buying 100 individual gifts, they’re writing short handwritten notes to guests or close family members.

Simple, thoughtful and often more meaningful than another personalised keyring.

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Photo By: Luisa Apanui Photography

Charity donations

Some couples are replacing favours with:

“In place of wedding favours, we’ve made a donation to…”

Particularly common for causes close to family stories or shared values.

 

So… are wedding favours dead?

Not exactly.

They’re just changing.

The idea behind favours was always to thank guests for celebrating with you. That part hasn’t disappeared.

Couples are simply becoming more intentional about how they do it.

Because in the end, guests probably won’t remember the personalised bottle opener.

They will remember the incredible food, the atmosphere, and the moments that made your wedding feel like you.

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