Leah + Rob

What Kind of Wedding Couple Are You? Find Your Perfect Wedding Style

Planning your wedding doesn’t actually start with a venue…
It starts with you.

Your vibe. Your relationship. The way you want your day to feel.

Big party? Intimate moment? Somewhere in between?

If you’re not sure where to begin – this is it.
We’re breaking down the different types of wedding couples (and trust us… you’ll see yourself in one instantly).

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Image by: Alexandra Kate Creative

The “Main Character Energy” Couple

You’re not here for subtle – you’re here for a moment.

Think big entrances, outfit changes, champagne towers, and a packed dance floor from start to finish. Your wedding is less “event” and more experience.

Your vibe looks like:
• Large guest list
• Statement florals + styling
• Live music or DJ
• Late night food (burgers, pizza, something iconic)

Kayla + Tom

The “Soft, Romantic & Intentional” Couple

You care about the feeling – and every detail means something.

Your wedding is emotional, beautiful, and deeply personal. The kind where guests walk away saying “that felt so them.”

Your vibe looks like:
• Garden, vineyard, or coastal settings
• Personal vows
• Neutral tones + soft florals
• Smaller, meaningful guest list

Beck and Logan’s Wedding
Image by: State of Grace Wedding Photography

The “Let’s Elope & Be Done With It” Couple

You’d choose a mountain over a seating chart any day.

For you, it’s about the two of you – the experience, the adventure, and doing things your way without the noise.

Your vibe looks like:
• Epic New Zealand landscapes
• Minimal guest list (or none at all)
• Sunrise or sunset ceremonies
• A full day experience instead of a formal timeline

Tova & Matt
Image by: Carla Mitchell Photography

The “Cool Without Trying” Couple

Effortless. Editorial. Slightly Pinterest… but cooler.

You’re not following trends — you’re setting them. Your wedding feels curated but never overdone.

Your vibe looks like:
• Modern venues or outdoor long table setups
• Fashion-forward outfits
• Candles, textures, layered styling
• Content creators capturing candid moments

Vintage Glam Styled Shoot – The Tannery
Image by: Katrina Cooke Photography

The “Weekend Wedding Takeover” Couple

If people are travelling… you’re making it worth it.

Your wedding isn’t just a day – it’s a full experience.

Your vibe looks like:
• Welcome drinks + wedding + recovery brunch
• Destination feel (even within NZ)
• Guest activities
• Venues with accommodation

Nomadic Tents at Backpaddock Lakes
Image by: Backpaddock Lakes

The “Rule Breakers”

Traditions? Optional.

You’re doing it your way – and that’s exactly what makes it unforgettable.

Your vibe looks like:
• Non-traditional timelines
• Unique venues or locations
• Personal touches everywhere
• Zero pressure to follow the “rules”

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Image by: David James Photography

Plan It Your Way

No matter your vibe – there’s no one way to get married.
But there is a better way to plan it.

With Slay My Day, you can:

• Discover incredible vendors across New Zealand
• Save your favourites and compare options
• Plan your budget, timeline, and details in one place

Start building your wedding your way…

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