Where to Start: Planning Your Wedding
You’ve said “yes” – now what?
That very first step into wedding planning can feel equal parts exciting and overwhelming. With so many ideas, decisions, and inspiration boards flying around, it’s easy to get lost before you’ve even begun. That’s why we created Slay My Day: to take the stress off your shoulders and give you everything you need in one place.
Here’s your guide to getting started:
1. Dream Big, Then Narrow It Down
Before you dive into bookings and spreadsheets, start with your vision. What kind of vibe do you want for your day? Relaxed backyard party, chic city soirée, or an adventurous elopement?
Pro tip: check out our Real Weddings Blogs for inspiration from couples around New Zealand.
2. Find Your Dream Team
Vendors are the heartbeat of every wedding. Whether it’s the florist who gets your style, the celebrant who feels like an old friend, or the band that keeps the dance floor packed, the right crew makes all the difference.
Start with our Search Tool to explore 700+ vendors and venues across Aotearoa.
Want extra support? Browse our Wedding Planners who can help bring your vision to life.
3. Get Organised with the Right Tools
This is where planning turns from overwhelming to manageable.
We’ve built digital wedding tools to keep you sorted from day one:
- Budget Tracker – know what you’re spending and where.
- Guest List Manager – keep RSVPs, dietary needs, and seating plans in one place.
- Wedding Planning Checklist – so you never miss a detail.
- The Big Day Run Sheet – because smooth timelines mean stress-free celebrations.
Shop our full collection of Wedding Tools and get everything saved to your own personal dashboard.
4. Lean on the Collective
You don’t have to figure this all out alone. That’s the beauty of the Slay My Day Collective. We’ve brought together the best in the industry, along with advice and insights to support your journey.
Browse our Inspo & Planning Blogs for tips, trends, and advice straight from industry experts.
Join our community of vendors and couples who are making weddings happen every day.
5. Take It One Step at a Time
Wedding planning isn’t a sprint. Focus on one decision at a time, celebrate the wins, and don’t be afraid to delegate. With the right tools, team, and support, you’ll go from “where do we even start?” to “we did it.”
Ready to start planning?
- Search vendors and venues with our Search Tool
- Explore more tips in our Blog
- Shop your digital Planning Tools
Slay your wedding planning from day one.
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